making...what?....i absolutely despise the term "making love". i think its one of the most stupid ways to describe sex. just think about it....making....love. you cant make love. if you could, you'd be a rich mofo. the fact is, love is a precious process that keeps growing or sometimes diminishes. you should HAVE love BEFORE you have sex. how the hell is sex going to produce love? thats like trying to turn shit into sugar. smh. sex is sex and love is love. once you decide that you love someone enough to share your body with them, thats beautiful. the fact is, even tho they are nice together, they are not required to be present at the same time. you can have sex with someone and not love them or you can love someone and not have sex with them. you just cant make love. are you hoping that by being intimate with someone, after you've sweat ya perm out and your partner is laying there snoring....yall are miraculously in love? whatever. i dont know what im going to call it from now on. i dont just have sex. hell, there arent too many species on earth that dont have sex. id like to think that as humans, most of us are evolved more than that. i dont fuck. i dont do the grown up. i dont screw. i dont know what to call what it is that me and l.w.n. do....all i know is, we dont make love because love was there before we became intimate. what we do is beautiful and ugly, pleasurable and painful, intense and gentle....all at the same time. *sigh* in a minute....peace and love...prolific out.